tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-41317299624346412042024-03-12T20:25:05.495-07:00Live..Laugh...Love..Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.comBlogger130125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-30908111947133659492013-06-14T12:54:00.001-07:002013-06-14T12:54:27.996-07:00Week 1 of TrainingWell I survived my first night of intense training with Troy Diesel. <br />
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This guy completely kicked my ASS last night.</div>
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We did a variety of circuit training and other things I dont even know what they would be called other than torture, lol, and by the end of the hour I thought I was going to collapse. </div>
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I did almost throw up, and my shoulder and legs wanted to quit but I kept pushing.</div>
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I kept imagining that my fat was melting with each rep or each lunge or each, whatever. Cause it is.</div>
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He kept saying 15 more, and I would look at him like, uh, are you kidding? But I kept going and today I feel like I was hit by a semi-truck but I feel damn good and by the end of this summer, you arent even going to believe the transformation I will have made this to Troy-Diesel here, and my new diet. Yowza, hot mama coming! Stay tuned!</div>
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To be happy?</div>
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To be focused?<br />
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To be kind?</div>
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To be healthy?</div>
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To be a good daughter?</div>
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Friend?</div>
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Coworker?</div>
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Start each day with an intention and hold yourself accountable for meeting your intention.</div>
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<strong>Today, my intention is - no negativity leaves my lips.</strong></div>
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<strong>Swim im positive words and speak only to build and never to destroy.</strong></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-34457284463428970422013-05-29T11:28:00.000-07:002013-05-29T14:56:33.356-07:00 Fashion BlogI think I am going to start blogging about fashion for curvy thirties! I put soo much time into finding pieces that fit and work with my body type I might as well share the process incase anyone out there is interested:) <br />
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Why the heck not, I love fashion it is soo much fun! Maybe my first post will be tonight even:)<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-90256048037211600492013-05-28T12:41:00.001-07:002013-05-28T12:41:57.854-07:00Dedicated to MY GiantsI had a conversation with a friend at work, regarding a movement of celebrating the "Giant's" in our lives who lifted us up over our obstacles and made drastic differences in the essence of all that we are.<br />
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These giants are friends, family, anyone who comes into our life and leaves us more elevated then when we first met them.<br />
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These are the people you know, have your best interest as their goal, and they are determined to celebrate your overcoming trials rather than celebrate your trials. People that remind you of your potential, and of your light and being. <br />
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Many times throughout my life, I wondered why I was so empowered, filled with strength, love and courage. I didn't understand why my spirit didn't match my circumstances. <br />
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I survived so much pain and in the midst of it, felt like something soo much bigger than the struggle, was meant for me, waiting for me.<br />
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I realize this is due to my GIANTS! OH and I have many:)<br />
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My Father the person who reminds me that laughter is key to happiness and that family comes first, always.<br />
GOD for having big plans for me since day 1.<br />
Leah - for always believing that I am so much bigger than I realize.<br />
My Daughter Teihani - the one who thinks the world of me and makes me laugh, and inspires me to thrive to be a better person every day because she has the biggest heart I have ever seen in my life.<br />
My Mom her kindness, her innocence and her story of survival and struggle<br />
My Soul Sister Suzanne: For her listening ear, advice, and her voice of reason and strength<br />
My Big Sister Thao: For being one I can tell any and everything to and who I can call at 4:10 in the morning and she will be there no matter what.<br />
The Love of my Life- Rico: no matter what we struggle through he will always be the love of my life and the one who gets me.<br />
Capoeira: it brought me through the passing of my ex, through sad days, through physical and health problems, it gave so much to our lives I will forever be indebted to Capoeira and they friends we met along the way.<br />
Jason B: God's soldier who is like a Brother to me, who is always there when I need a listening ear or a person to pray with.<br />
Elijah: Whos belief in what LOVE and Family is, inspires me everyday to be the glue that bonds my family together. Never have I met a young man soo vigilant for what FAMILY means, because he is deeply dedicated to his son and future wife. <br />
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To be continued.......<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-77988698033735329882013-05-28T12:38:00.001-07:002013-05-29T14:57:38.430-07:00lovestrongEmbellished arms<br />
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ink stained skin<br />
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kisses where your last name lies<br />
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my ears are yours for filling<br />
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with love with words <br />
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with your air<br />
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wrapped in you <br />
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in the early hours <br />
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when the sun first kisses the earth<br />
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I dream of<br />
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moments on beaches<br />
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that belonged to us<br />
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shoes sinking in wet sand<br />
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light blue<br />
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memories of laughing on <br />
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cliffs<br />
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and dreaming into the tides<br />
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the world was ours<br />
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Your laughter fills my spirit and echos into my future<br />
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your smile is my dance<br />
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I know yours is <br />
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I will hold during my <br />
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last breath<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-88708687676550193212013-05-22T15:57:00.002-07:002013-05-22T15:57:42.853-07:00Were gonna kick your ass!! (True Story)<br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Overheard in the hallways of the King County Superior
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<o:p><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> </span></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Plaintiff Counsel: I don’t think you heard me, but my
last demand is $250,000 or we will try this case.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Defense Counsel: Okay.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Plaintiff Counsel: No seriously, the jury is walking in and
I am going to kick your ass. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Defense Counsel: Okay.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Plaintiff Counsel: No really, the jury is coming in and I am
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Defense Counsel: Okay.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Plaintiff Counsel: You must be stupid. The jury is walking
in and my bottom line dollar is $100,000 or we will try this case.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Defense Counsel: Okay.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Plaintiff Counsel: I am really, really, really serious about
this case. How about $5,000 or else we will try the case. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Defense Counsel: Okay.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Plaintiff Counsel: Now we are getting somewhere. I accept
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Defense Counsel: No, I meant okay to trying the case.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Plaintiff Counsel: I don’t think you understand how serious
we are about this case. The jury is here and I am going to kick not only your
ass, but every ass in your law firm. Give me your spare pocket change,
and we get your 7<sup><span style="font-size: x-small;">th</span></sup> round draft pick in next year’s draft of new
lawyers.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Defense Counsel: Nope.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Plaintiff Counsel: Fine, we are dismissing your client and I
am really serious about kicking your ass in the next case. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-4178299199621681002013-05-16T17:34:00.003-07:002013-05-22T16:17:00.489-07:00Who Am I?? By: Teihani Nataliah Cruz<span style="font-family: Calibri;"></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif"; font-size: 14pt;">I am </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Cooper Black","serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Teihani Nataliah Cruz</span></i><span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">Child of the free raging
winds.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">And deep glistening ocean.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">Born and raised in Seattle
by Wendy Cruz,<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">A beautiful Polynesian
goddess and loving mother of three.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">I am the granddaughter of
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">An astoundingly resilient
woman who will do everything in her power<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">To keep the people around
her smiling.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">I am the courageous older
sibling of Micah Jose Israel <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">Who carries an intelligent
soul that shines through his glowing smile, <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">And never fails to brighten
my dull day.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">My smiling cocoa eyes
reflect the beaming hot sun <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">And my beautifully
imperfect skin blends in with the tone of <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">Sun kissed caramel.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">My curvy legs move to the
beat of Brazilian drums <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">As words of wisdom escape
my mind, <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">Quickly falling like the
colorful leaves of fall.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">I proudly stand at five
feet tall,<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">With my head held so high
I can look upon the <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">Rotating earth beneath me.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">I am able to visibly imagine
a brighter future<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">As I give every bit of
strength into putting my dreams in action.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">My vibrant senses
instantly feel the pounding rhythm of my <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">Drumsticks<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">And the smooth touch of my
fingers, <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">Spinning records that are
guaranteed to keep the club live.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">My mighty integrity is a
trait passed down by my mother<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">And has never left my side
throughout my existence.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">The painful obstacles I’ve
fought through in life <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">Have led me down the path
to becoming the<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">Amazingly strong willed
human I am today.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">I live to watch the nature
evolve around me <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">Along with the growth of
myself and others.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">I live for the freedom of
speech,<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">And improvement of self-respect
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">Among teenagers just like
me.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">I live for my family,
dreams,<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">And peace among the earth.
<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">I was born a blessed child
of god <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">With undiscovered powers
that have been<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif";">Passed down through
generations. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Elephant","serif"; font-size: 12pt;">I am
Teihani Nataliah Cruz.</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-61782714463861268112013-05-08T17:11:00.000-07:002013-06-05T17:15:40.756-07:00Psychic at Ross (insert twilight zone music here)After meeting my accountant at Barnes & Noble, we walked over to eat at California Pizza Kitchen, then on to Ross to pick up some birthday presents.<br />
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The girls ran off to try on clothes and Micah and I perused the toddler section.<br />
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As were looking at cute little boy shirts with super hero prints, and pastel plaid. A woman comes up to me and says she felt my energy from across the room and was wondering if she coudld share something with me about what she was sensing. Then she goes on to say:<br />
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" I get this feeling that you have given soo much of yourself to others that you keep very little for yourself. I feel like you have experienced much pain but you walk tall and you smile and hide the pain you feel, almost all the time. You feel like your pain is a burden on others so you keep it to yoursel. You dont trust people with your pain, you feel like it makes you vulnerable so you hide it so you can keep your power and strength. I feel like you are not happy, like you used to be, and you feel numb, and the only happiness you find right now is in your children. I feel like you have lost you. You have tried many things to find happiness and those things didnt work and you very frustrated that you dont know how to meet your huge potential. I feel your calling is so much bigger than you can understand in this realm. I feel like this numbness is making you lose time, like it is flying by and you arent feeling anything.But that you find feeling, in the love of your children"<br />
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That wasnt verbatim, but it was close. and at first, I was ready to laugh at her attempt to con me out of money, but she didnt ask for money. BY the time she was done I felt like she hit a raw spot on my heart. <br />
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I HAVE been feeling VERY NUMB and I couldnt figure out what was wrong with me. <br />
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I have so much to FEEL about but some of it hurts and is scary so I march forward with my head high with this great pride in my ability to be numb. That it makes me stronger, not to feel. But I do feel, and at the core of it all I am not a tough numb person who can't be broken, I am soft and vulnerable, and lonely. I find my joy in my children, she WAS SOOO right about that. I find my joy in their laughter and love. Because I dont know where my joy went! Somewhere between San Francisco and here, my joy disappeared. <br />
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Dont get me wrong, I love my life I really do love every bit about it, but something is gone, something is missing I dont know what it is.<br />
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It might be something as simple as, I miss my Dad. I am so close to him, I HATE being soo far from him.And I am afraid something will happen to him.<br />
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It might be that for many years my daughter and were soo close we kept nothing from eachother and and she was my other half, two peas in a pod, twin spirits, and now she keeps things from me out of fear I will judge here, when she is my favorite human on this planet and could not would not judge her but would give her my honest opinion about whatever it is because I am her Mother.<br />
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It might be that my relationship that was once the most beautiful connection I have ever seen or witnessed in my life, went wrong somewhere and we folded under the pressure and stress of our lives and I can't understand why and I did everything in my power to save it. BUt we still love eachother madly, but can't figure out how to bring ourselves back to the center. <br />
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It could be that I am too wrapped up in my busy life that I dont have time to figure out why my happiness has slipped away. <br />
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I know it is not anyone elses job to bring me back my joy, NO one can give it back to me, only I can do that. I just have to figure out how. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-64206425175571230802013-04-30T00:29:00.000-07:002013-05-29T15:00:59.742-07:00The Big Day<br />
I was doing some more research on preparing for Cochlear Implant Surgery. I even made myself watch a Youtube video and I didnt not get too dizzy this time. <br />
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I found this little template to help me with my book about our Journey, it is super cute and would have been great to give to Micah if he were a little older:)<br />
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I can't believe tomorrow is the big day. This weekend, I let Micah eat whatever he wanted:) We got his hair cut in preparation, since I am sure they will shave that area, we opted for a cute little feau hawk mo-hawk:) Its soo cute and my little boy now looks like a little boy not so much like a pretty little girl hehehe. It was sad to take his hair off but the new look is so darn adorable!<br />
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We went to church on Sunday where I prayed and prayed that the surgeon will have careful hands and that Micah recovers quickly and that I can actually go through with this. I actually get dizzy when I think about my baby being in pain, being swollen, and most of all being changed.. I know how this sounds to some parents, but this is how I feel....<br />
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Today I looked at him and he stared right into my eyes and his eyes welled up a bit but he wasn't crying and I was scared he was trying to tell me something..... Do you believe that sometimes you can hear your children even if they are not saying or signing anything? I do.. <br />
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That maternal connection is very real.</div>
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Am I ever going to be okay with this? Am I going to forever wonder if this was the right thing to do? Or will he just thrive and be happy and I will realize all of this was just my own issues??? <br />
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I don't know, but it is 12:16 AM on surgery day and I am working at the office. Because I can't sleep and because I have to keep busy so I don't panick.<br />
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IN just a few short hours I will have to hand my baby over to a nurse and wait for the most painful 2-4 hours of my LIFE until they tell me I can see him again. <br />
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Somewhere out there someone is in a much tougher spot than me- I have to be grateful and I have to be strong for my Micah.. KEEP IT TOGETHER WENDY it will all be okay!!</div>
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Oh my God look at this little face... </div>
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My emotions are all over the place. <br />
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I find myself trying to mirror their calmness so I don't seem like a crazy person when I have to tell them about the procedure.</div>
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I want to say, hold on while I go faint. BRB.</div>
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My baby, is going under the knife, no matter how to say it, this is what I hear when anyone says surgery or procedure. (knife, knife and cut and my baby).......<br />
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I will be able to snuggle him every minute of every day for a week.</div>
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I admit this, I try to remember how his eyes will light up when he hears our voices in <br />
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As far his first sounds, I am going to sing every cute little song I can think of and make him laugh and giggle and just hope and pray that it won't be scary for him. <br />
In fact I am pretty sure his first sounds will startle him. I am hoping the audiologist lets me take lead on activation day to avoid loud noises that could freak him about but introduce sound softly to help warm him up to receiving them. <br />
Sometimes you gotta strong arm these docs to remind them who is Mom!</div>
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Kaitlyn, One of the Deaf Moms at HSDC did a presentation about parenting and interacting with ASL.<br />
She and her husband followed their little girl around naturally and signed the normal interactive signs and engaged in ways I do with Micah.<br />
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I dont know why but since I am the emotional sap that I am, I totally fought back tears.... I am not Deaf, but I do the same things she does which tells me my heart and instinct are on point and that my visual interaction with Micah are what a Deaf Mom would do and my heart melted with happiness and broke at the same time. Hard to explain....<br />
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I Love him. What can I say. I am grateful tgat am so in tuned with him.<br />
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it feels good to know I am doing something right:)Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-39123557645282109262013-04-18T15:11:00.001-07:002013-04-18T15:11:45.885-07:00Plus-Sized SwagIt's not easy dressing ALLLL-a-DIS<br />
For one, I have to find pants that fit my big ole booty, and vivacious thighs:)<br />
But, I am also short, so I have to find curve fitting pants that dont bunch up all over my ankles.<br />
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This is NOT easy, but I have found some brands that work with me- JAG jeans/ all kinds of stuff in the TBD department at Nordies, and lots of online stores. Need to list those soon!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-62460202658147703232013-04-18T15:10:00.001-07:002013-04-24T10:23:39.064-07:00Micahs latest signs!!Micah is signing Mom and saying Mama at the same time, with or without hearing aids, like a pro!<br />
He signs- eat, more, light, balloon, ball, FISH - (fish is his favorite lately) shoes! Soo cute! Go little guy:) I love him to Reeses Pieces!<br />
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Its amazing to see his language just exploding and he is thriving in every way. It also feels good that we have respected both languages and have given each one time to grow and develop. Its been tough but its been beautiful and with each new sign and new word I realize the bilingual approach was just right for him!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-24649877138703704222013-04-11T10:00:00.001-07:002013-04-11T10:00:20.907-07:00April 30- quickly approachingThe big day is coming, in just a couple weeks.<br />
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Does it feel right? (sort of)<br />
Does it scare the shit out of me? (HELLYES)<br />
Do I still believe in our decision (yes)<br />
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I met a young lady last week at the Capoeira Womens Encounter event and she was profoundly Deaf. She spoke and lip reads and I somehow was able to spot her in the crowd pretty quickly. We practiced together and sat together to eat and I asked her if she could sign. She said yes and we began to talk about Capoeira. She was pretty amazing, she is in college and trainins capoeira regularly. I took the opportunity to talk to her about Micah's implant decision and she was fully supportive and was so happy that we are also using ASL with him. <br />
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She is Deaf, she was not implanted, she uses hearing aids and she is living a full wonderful life and has been taking speach therapy since she was 1 just like Micah.<br />
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Micah can do anything, any other child can do. I know many people don't know that life is limitless for him, some people assume he cant play sports, or drive, etc. But he can do anything but hear. All Deaf or hard of hearing children can!<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-72491080583523748982013-04-11T09:22:00.003-07:002013-04-11T09:22:34.179-07:00vigilantAs I grow older, I am learning that I am a lover not a fighter and I am vigilant for my happiness and peace. When someone tries to dirsupt my peace I do not and will not tolerate it. If extending peace to them doesnt work, then it is much easier for me to walk away. You cannot force someone to find their peace and happiness, and you can not give soo much of yours to them that you have nothing left. <br />
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I felt alone for a long time, trying to figure out what was best for Micah. <br />
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I was anti-implant for a long long while, and on the fence for a long while.</div>
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As you know I spoke to many families, and learned all I could about Deaf culture and implants.</div>
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At one point, I saw another family that we know at the hospital about to implant their little baby girl, and I had another complete panic attack in the hospital, silently, without anyone knowing, and as I walked away from them as they went in to activate their childs implant, I started to sweat, and freak out and tears poured down my face as if they were doing something to harm and change her.</div>
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Only her parents know because they love her and their decision was guided by love. Whatever their decision was. Because they are her parents, and we have to trust our instincts when we make a decision for our child, it is <strong>always out of love</strong>.</div>
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I know these people, they didn't implant her because they didn't want to learn her language, or culture, they are fluent signers.</div>
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They are deeply immersed in Deaf understanding, culture and language, and they didnt want to change her to make life easier on themselves, they just wanted to give her more.</div>
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Not that Deaf people have less opportunity, anyone can do anything, but the set of opportunities for people that have access to sound can be a little different for hearing world and Deaf world. </div>
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Not better, not worse, just different.</div>
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We sat down in the Venetian to enjoy some delightful pastries from the Bouchon Bakery and next to us there was a little girl about 2 years old, gleefully singing at the top of her lungs, mimicking the canal singer that was belting out something in Italian while steering the little gondola down </div>
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I came across a thought, that Micah could have been next to the little girl and not hear the gondola singer, not hear her, not hear us laugh and be in a silent moment, a peaceful beautiful one, but a silent one nonetheless, or in any park surrounded by children, who don't sign or know any ASL. I envisioned him frustrated because trying to communicate with them that he wants to play or be friends, and I won't always be there to advocate at every moment. I know he will be capable of</div>
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My prior thoughts about this were that he would be in a Deaf school anyways and that he will always have Deaf friends, but I cannot and will not isolate him and limit his social circles so that he wont feel out of place. I want him to be a part of every kind of social circle and not feel frustrated when he wants to communicate.</div>
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I am his Mother and I just want to give him any opportunity I can and I want to support his decision whatever they may be as he grows up. If he ever says, Mom, I dont want or need this implant. I will help him throw it off of a mountain and will not question his decision.</div>
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Afterall, no matter what, we can communicate with him using ASL- he is Dead and always will be Deaf, with or without his implant and to us he is perfect, just the way he is.</div>
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We are going to give him the opportunity to access sound. </div>
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Next step: picking an implant device...<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-5589960199840943222013-02-13T11:05:00.003-08:002013-04-25T16:49:10.454-07:00Micah Jose' UpdateMicah Joe is such a funny little guy:) He is full of personality, he is vocal, and his signing is getting better and better each day.<br />
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He signs milk, Mom, Dad, want, up, and a few other signs that are emerging and he sometimes mixes sign. I have videos I need to post. He is such a little ball of joy and energy. I am so crazy about this kid and as you can imagine we all are;)<br />
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Micah has a new nanny, her name is Hope. He adores her and her boyfriend Casey, they both attend signing class on Mondays and are doing great!<br />
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I Loved our other nanny but I just couldnt afford to keep wonderful her.. Which made me sad but Hope is great too and much more affordable. Plus she brings Micah on adventures almost daily and is on the same diet as him so is able to cook things he can eat and knows what to purchase for him to eat when they are out and about.<br />
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OH! How could I forget, Micah started walking on New Years Eve!!! Now he is all over the place! He is even running:) He punches his arms about as he walks, it is pretty funny:)<br />
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The meeting went well and these three were incredibly patient with my suuuuuper slow and inaccurate ASL. I wish Rico came to this meeting it was eye opening.<br />
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1- Stella has traveled to many countries after she graduated, she volunteered in Nepal and told me people in other countries have soon much patience and are happy to find a way to communicate. She said she had as easy a time as any foreign traveler that doesn't speak the native language in any country they visit. She said she never felt afraid or uncomfortable and met many other Deaf people during her travels.<br />
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3- Two went to mainstream college where accommodations were made for them in the classroom. They had technology and not takers to assist them.<br />
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4- one has an implant the other two don't, she says people don't judge her for having one and that she signs and speaks and that she like to be able to hear music and environmental sounds but that sometimes she wants quiet and will turn it off. She said she is glad she got one but said she does wish she got it when she was a bit younger.<br />
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She says many of her friends chose nit to get one, like Stella and Andrew and she understands why.<br />
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Andrew told me how strongly he feels about how I'm giving Micah the foundation of ASL and that he thinks I shouldn't sign and speak at the same time. I found that interesting as you hear different opinions on this all the time.<br />
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I asked them what I can do to help Micah get the best education and got different answers but what stood out is that I must be a vigilant advocate for him and that the best school is CASD. (already planning on sending him there) and that mainstream school is OK but not the best for him socially.<br />
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They also said WA School for the Deaf in Vancouver is no good and behind academically... good to know! This was the best meeting I have had yet and I'm sooo glad I met these guys their info was so valuable!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-4031867519976262622013-02-01T15:26:00.000-08:002013-02-13T15:27:11.346-08:00Someone said to me<div style="text-align: center;">
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-28332505519223328862012-10-22T10:30:00.003-07:002012-10-22T10:32:09.925-07:0020 lbs DOWN!! Woot Woot!!!!Okay so, I am down 20 lbs, and 2-3 pant sizes! There are a few parts that play a big role in my weight loss journey:<br />
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<li>MYFITNESSPAL.COM !!! </li>
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I have quite a way to go, BUT I have more energy, my knee hurts less, as well as my lower back! My middle is going waay down, and I have lost some boob (believe it or not lol) my bras are loose and I just invested a pretty penny in new bras, now I have to do it again!!! I am wearing a size 13/14 now, I was in a 16... My feet got a tad bit smaller, and my back rolls are waaaaay down too LOL. I am loving this:) I feel better every day. My goal isnt a number though, I just want to keep going until I feel healthy!</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-15474750998717567962012-10-22T09:53:00.002-07:002012-10-22T09:53:29.424-07:00Just when I thought I was making some progress. And Cute video of Micah:)One of the hardest parts of this journey, has been being able to accept the thought of the cochlear implant procedure on my son. It alone is enough to make me want to pass out as I have reflected on other posts. Recently some friends got the cochlear implant for their daughter, and though I completely support and understand their decision for their child, I saw them at Children's hospital when I was there for an appointment, and I saw them on the day of their daughter's implant activation. They were perfectly calm, and their daughter was fine, she had recovered really well<br />
after surgery and was running around and happy and well<br />
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Every time we see Dr. Watson, she tells me I am her dream Mom and she is soo hapy I am Micahs Mom cause I already do soo many of the things she wants us to do. Somehow it came to me organically, I dont know, but I am grateful that I am doing it right!:) I am also happy that she is soo respectful fo our bilingual approach that she uses sign with him as well as speech. <br />
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As for ME (sometimes I forget there even is a ME) Moms, you feel me!!!<br />
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I have definitely been isolating a bit and not talking to many people as I am focused on making these huge decisions and work, and just being a Mommy and Lola. Life is soo busy right now, and I am in place where I need to process and figure some things out.Some of my lovely friends get it, and I am soo thankful, but others dont and my heart tells me that they will come around when the time is right. <br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-64931080699669720192012-09-27T11:25:00.001-07:002013-05-29T14:59:01.166-07:00Our Journey - Micah & Cochlear ImplantsOur Journey - Micah & Cochlear Implants - Continued<br />
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I have been working on a video blog of the cochlear implant decision process, and just Micah's day to day life. I really suck at video editing, thank goodness my Brother is learning about film production and editing.. HELP ME RICKEY:)<br />
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Micah's signs are emerging!! It is soo exciting, he is signing Mom, eat, more, up, and want. He is also crawling at the speed of light and standing on things, also feeling comfortable enough to let go.<br />
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We are still no closer to deciding about the implant ( I am still not closer)! The other week we met up with other families from our ASL class, and one little girl was getting ready to get implanted on the 19th, I found myself apprehensive about it, and feeling sorry for the little girl. I observed my feelings. I believe in her family's choice, but I found myself feeling like, I couldn't do that to Micah. This instinctive protective natural reaction is how I feel about the implant all the time. </div>
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Like I have to protect him from it. Protect him from all the hearing people that want him to change and be like them. When he is perfect just as he is!!</div>
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I am digging deeper into these feelings and trying to sort it all out.</div>
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I had a dream the other night that I packed and took him in the middle of the night, right before his scheduled surgery, I literally ran away from him to protect him from the surgery!</div>
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I am praying and praying for some clarity and that God helps me with this decision so that my emotions around the whole thing doesnt effect me knowing deep down what is best for him. I am still reaching out to Deaf people, to get more information. I still have soo many questions!</div>
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-20981362652608153432012-09-13T15:55:00.002-07:002012-09-13T15:55:41.935-07:00Weightloss JourneySO I joined this group caled Botycampers, ran by my pal Jeni Fujita, who is life coach and fitness extraordinaire, not to mention, an amazing singer to boot. <br />
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Soo far, I have lost 12 lbs. I am proud to say the weight is coming off consistently, and I am drinking atleast 8 8oz glasses of water, and getting some cardio and strength training in every day. I am trying to eat healthier, but I dont beat myself up over a few dark chocolate pieces. Heres my latest body pic. I am at 187.5! My goal isnt really a number, but a feeling, the feeling of less knee pains, feeling good in my size 10 jeans. I want to see my facial bone structure again, and I am slowly getting there! It feels pretty bad-ass actually:)<br />
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THIS IS ME WITHOUT ANY SPANX, HEHE. TOOK SOME GUTS FOR ME TO TAKE THIS ONE:)</div>
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Coming from a person who felt like a total hottie at 200 lbs, well, confidence has never been an issue, health , however, has gotten worse as my weight went up, and I cant wait to get rid of all these aches and pains!!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4131729962434641204.post-2571513292024057752012-09-11T10:37:00.002-07:002012-09-13T15:58:26.604-07:00You're Amazing Just the Way You Are<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9vrboKNjpMk&feature=BFa&list=LLFhtl5GcP_438cF0uVsNYRg">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9vrboKNjpMk&feature=BFa&list=LLFhtl5GcP_438cF0uVsNYRg</a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17394337852161282928noreply@blogger.com0